Relationships we are building

Why wasting your precious time for people having no sincere intent in building of quality win-win relationship? Because we (or at least I) have better time to do with our (my) life, than supporting those “phony-confident” persona’s, searching only for confirmation from others in every walk of life possible. And there are many of them.. Especially on social-networking sites, many are presenting themselves (especially women) in various wannabe-sexy poses, hoping to be followed with as many unoriginal and overused-phrase comments as possible. And sooner or later they are grounded with the value of such compliments; they might be intriguing at first, but over time, their value decreases exponentially.. So why not rather invest, the time spent, in consolidating the relationships they are really interested in, and over time, get the opinions they could actually value? At least in my view, that would be a much better investment, especially if we also take in account Pareto principle, that could be saying, that we get 80% of our “relationships qualities” from 20% of folks we are involved with, and other 20% from the other 80% of the folks involved. So why dispersing our energy and intents all over the place, and not giving the first 20% our special attention for further improvement of our interactions, and that way creating a circle of friends from which opinions we could actually value?
At least as I see it, I (as probably everyone else) have an abundance of various qualities to offer, but have no intent to disperse them all over the place.. Because only when they fell on fertile ground, they can work miracles, which is the only sustainable effect I will ever be pleased with. Because life’s quality is all about those little miracles, those little cherish-able situations that nourish and motivate us every single time when experienced.. So why spending so much time on banalities, when we should be overwhelmed with pursuing our happiness and lifelong goals?

Tags: abundance, goals, happiness, Life, purpose, relationships